Forget about pool. Alex will ruin his whole life if he continues to do what he's doing. That's for sure.
If he could get back into serious pool and somehow accept that he will never be rich, he'll do just fine. Why can't pool champion like Alex realize that money and wealth isn't everything? Why can't he be satisfied with being great pool champion who earns enough money to make a decent living? He can certainly make more money per year than a regular 9 to 5 job. He can be paid (ok sum of money, not great) for doing something that he loves. How many people in the world can say that? People always say that there's no money in pool. Well, for champions like him there is...certainly enough to make a decent living.
What if he indeed wins a 'big score' in poker? How long will that last? A month? A year? Then what?
Somebody please get his head straight and get him back to full time pool. ASAP.
This thread is a little depressing when reading about one of my favorite pool players, Alex Pagulayan. :sorry:
Unfortunately, gambling is a disease. It rates right up there with alcoholism and drugs. If you got it bad, the future isn't bright. I don't care if you're betting on cocks, playing pool, throwing the dice, or playing poker. Some addicted gamblers just cannot help themselves. The more they win, the higher they bet until it is all gone.

I like to gamble, but I don't have an addiction. I can go in a casino or to a horse track with $300 to bet. When I lose the $300, that's it. I'm done.

I can't tell you how many times I've been approached in a casino by friends who went bust and asked me if they could borrow a C-note or two. Anywhere else, I would lend them that C-note but not in a casino. :grin-square:
It's fun to gamble, especially when you're winning. When reality smacks you in the face that you're broke, in deep dept, and don't have a place to hang your hat, requiring you to live off the goodwill of others, this is when the gambling addict finds out how many so-called "friends" they really have. Everybody loves a winner.:smiling-heart:
If you're a loser, they'll run from you like you've got the plague.

I wish Alex all the very best. He is such a nice guy. If he ever needed help, I'd help him. After years of being around gambling addicts, I did learn one lesson which I adhere to today. I never lend anybody money in the pool room unless I can afford to lose it.
