The sheer joy of Pool

jay helfert

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I'm back in the Philippines, spending the holidays here with my daughter and a girl friend. Kind of sad really with no close family around me, but that's life. I've spent a lifetime in the pool world, sometimes to the detriment of my family life and these are the consequences.

Been here nearly two weeks and finally walked into a little poolroom in Davao yesterday to check out the action. They were playing partners Rotation for small stakes and all four players were competent, probably a lot better than me right now. It's important to be honest with yourself about your current speed and mine is maybe C speed right now, having played only league pool the last few months.

I got into a friendly conversation with a guy watching the game standing next to me. His name was Adoy and he told me about when Dennis Orcollo first came through here in the late 90's wearing shorts, sandals and a plain white t-shirt. No one knew how good he was and Dennis beat everyone before they figured it out.

I showed him a cool little shot and pretty soon a lot of people were curious, so I showed them a few more. There were smiles all around and that made me feel good and to be accepted. I had to leave then but told them I would return later. When I came back this morning Adoy was there and asks me to play some with him. Turns out he is one of the owners of this room (maybe the only one). He was practicing Ten Ball, just throwing all ten balls on the table, spotting the one and shooting the opening shot from behind the line. When he missed he handed me a cue, a dirty old house cue with tape around the butt. It was fairly straight with a decent tip so here we go.

You've got to know how challenging it is to play here in wet humid conditions (you will work up a sweat - no aircon here!). The table plays funny and the rails are all different and the pockets look large but are very shallow and reject a lot of shots, but once you figure it out you can play. At first he won every game, but after maybe three or four games I won a couple. We were playing for nothing, absolutely zero! Just playing to play the game and that's cool with me. I still love the challenge that the game of pool presented to me over fifty years ago. I started getting the feel of the cue, the balls, the rails and the pockets and I was winning some games. Finally I made a nice run out and all the people watching gave me a little cheer. Now I was winning most of the games and Adoy was struggling to win one. He was working hard to beat me, not wanting to lose to an American. After a couple of hours he told me last game as there were people waiting to play on the table and pay time. When we quit (I banked the ten to win the last game) I asked him if I owed any table time and he just ignored me. That was my answer.

I left feeling good that I had conducted myself well and made some new friends. Pool is once again my refuge from loneliness and isolation. When I'm on the table all is right in my world. After all these years that's about all I have sometimes, my love for the game.
 
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Thanks Jay. It's nice to hear about pool in places many of us will never see.

John
 
I'm back in the Philippines, spending the holidays here with my daughter and a girl friend. Kind of sad really with no close family around me, but that's life. I've spent a lifetime in the pool world, sometimes to the detriment of my family life and these are the consequences.

Been here nearly two weeks and finally walked into a little poolroom in Davao yesterday to check out the action. They were playing partners Rotation for small stakes and all four players were competent, probably a lot better than me right now. It's important to be honest with yourself about your current speed and mine is maybe C speed right now, having played only league pool the last few months.

I got into a friendly conversation with a guy watching the game standing next to me. His name was Adoy and he told me about when Dennis Orcollo first came through here in the late 90's wearing shorts, sandals and a plain white t-shirt. No one knew how good he was and Dennis beat everyone before they figured it out.

I showed him a cool little shot and pretty soon a lot of people were curious, so I showed them a few more. There were smiles all around and that made me feel good and to be accepted. I had to leave then but told them I would return later. When I came back this morning Adoy was there and asks me to play some with him. Turns out he is one of the owners of this room (maybe the only one). He was practicing Ten Ball, just throwing all ten balls on the table, spotting the one and shooting the opening shot from behind the line. When he missed he handed me a cue, a dirty old house cue with tape around the butt. It was fairly straight with a decent tip so here we go.

You've got to know how challenging it is to play here in wet humid conditions (you will work up a sweat - no aircon here!). The table plays funny and the rails are all different and the pockets look large but are very shallow and reject a lot of shots, but once you figure it out you can play. At first he won every game, but after maybe three or four games I won a couple. We were playing for nothing, absolutely zero! Just playing to play the game and that's cool with me. I still love the challenge that the game of pool presented to me over fifty years ago. I started getting the feel of the cue, the balls, the rails and the pockets and I was winning some games. Finally I made a nice run out and all the people watching gave me a little cheer. Now I was winning most of the games and Adoy was struggling to win one. He was working hard to beat me, not wanting to lose to an American. After a couple of hours he told me last game as there were people waiting to play on the table and pay time. When we quit (I banked the ten to win the last game) I asked him if I owed any table time and he just ignored me. That was my answer.

I left feeling good that I had conducted myself well and made some new friends. Pool is once again my refuge from loneliness and isolation. When I'm on the table all is right in my world. After all these years that's about all I have sometimes, my love for the game.

Great story Jay I find that in our older yrs that playing for stakes and mind you I never was a big gambler that winning money holds a back seat to just playing the game for the fun of it but getting a challage at the same time just to get the competitive juices flowing and see where you stack up ,, we all have pride at the end of the day young and old and nobody wants to lose so it still can be entertaining
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Once again, your writing has us right there with you, the whole way.

You do this so well, you ought to write a book. Or two :p

Thanks for sharing with us.
 
I don't like to read posts that are over a few sentences long but there are a few members here who I make an exception for, your one of them.

Thanks for the story and sorry for missing a chance to say Hi at this years M-cup, I will try harder in 2017:embarrassed2:
 
I'm back in the Philippines, spending the holidays here with my daughter and a girl friend. Kind of sad really with no close family around me, but that's life. I've spent a lifetime in the pool world, sometimes to the detriment of my family life and these are the consequences.....

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.....I left feeling good that I had conducted myself well and made some new friends. Pool is once again my refuge from loneliness and isolation. When I'm on the table all is right in my world. After all these years that's about all I have sometimes, my love for the game.

Jay, enjoyed your entire post, but your opening and closing paragraph, really struck a familiar chord with me, as I'm sure it did with many other pool degenerates like us!..I know how many lonely days, (often even holidays) I've spent alone on the road, far away from family, friends and loved ones!..Full time pool hustling can be a pretty lonely existence at times, can't it?

I can honestly say, I never knew what I was missing, until I spent the last 35-40 years of my life, happily married, with a good job, and friends and family around..I'm not sure I loved pool as much as you did, because I'm quite sure I may have made some drastic lifestyle changes early on!..But it was sure fun while it lasted, wasn't it? ;)

Dick
 
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I love playing money games in the Philippines. Win some,lose some but you need to be on your top game to win.


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Loneliness and isolation? Jay I wish I had half the friends you do. Hope you continue to have fun, no regrets please.
 
If you are lonely in the Philippines, you have run out of pesos.

Just joking folks.

Nice story, Jay. I remember playing there in those humid conditions, too. Even the places with A/C have a problem with the humidity. I always tell people that the Philippines is the only place I ever lived for three years and sweated every day and sweated pool almost every day.
 
Always love reading your stuff, Jay! It always strikes a chord somewhere deep within me though my experience hasn't been anywhere near yours.
Best wishes, friend!
 
I'm back in the Philippines, spending the holidays here with my daughter and a girl friend. Kind of sad really with no close family around me, but that's life. I've spent a lifetime in the pool world, sometimes to the detriment of my family life and these are the consequences.

Been here nearly two weeks and finally walked into a little poolroom in Davao yesterday to check out the action. They were playing partners Rotation for small stakes and all four players were competent, probably a lot better than me right now. It's important to be honest with yourself about your current speed and mine is maybe C speed right now, having played only league pool the last few months.

I got into a friendly conversation with a guy watching the game standing next to me. His name was Adoy and he told me about when Dennis Orcollo first came through here in the late 90's wearing shorts, sandals and a plain white t-shirt. No one knew how good he was and Dennis beat everyone before they figured it out.

I showed him a cool little shot and pretty soon a lot of people were curious, so I showed them a few more. There were smiles all around and that made me feel good and to be accepted. I had to leave then but told them I would return later. When I came back this morning Adoy was there and asks me to play some with him. Turns out he is one of the owners of this room (maybe the only one). He was practicing Ten Ball, just throwing all ten balls on the table, spotting the one and shooting the opening shot from behind the line. When he missed he handed me a cue, a dirty old house cue with tape around the butt. It was fairly straight with a decent tip so here we go.

You've got to know how challenging it is to play here in wet humid conditions (you will work up a sweat - no aircon here!). The table plays funny and the rails are all different and the pockets look large but are very shallow and reject a lot of shots, but once you figure it out you can play. At first he won every game, but after maybe three or four games I won a couple. We were playing for nothing, absolutely zero! Just playing to play the game and that's cool with me. I still love the challenge that the game of pool presented to me over fifty years ago. I started getting the feel of the cue, the balls, the rails and the pockets and I was winning some games. Finally I made a nice run out and all the people watching gave me a little cheer. Now I was winning most of the games and Adoy was struggling to win one. He was working hard to beat me, not wanting to lose to an American. After a couple of hours he told me last game as there were people waiting to play on the table and pay time. When we quit (I banked the ten to win the last game) I asked him if I owed any table time and he just ignored me. That was my answer.

I left feeling good that I had conducted myself well and made some new friends. Pool is once again my refuge from loneliness and isolation. When I'm on the table all is right in my world. After all these years that's about all I have sometimes, my love for the game.

All that you write resonates with me.

I've been having more than my share of debates about what pool means to individuals.

Remind me to tell you my Good Timez story at Derby!

Happy New Year Jay!
 
Great story and writing as usual. Anyone that spent hours upon hours in poolrooms and bars hustling, has lost a lot of family and friends along the way...myself included. Have a ball and stay safe. John Terrell
 
Funny to see this post. Friend from work leaves for the Philippines tomorrow for 2 months!
He goes for the "girlfriends" not pool. He spends lots of pesos!! Lol
Thanks for the story Jay!
 
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