Sorry, but your the one who is not getting it. Sure, some of the women's matches take longer and so do plenty of the mens. But lumping ALL women into the same group, because some may be at a lower level is just plain wrong. Just as I would not judge all the Mens seniors by the ones I watched while waiting for my table, who's first game ran over 30 minutes.
My first entire match, only took 30 minutes. I had one hill-hill match and we were still done in under an hour. I would bet one of the reasons Melinda sat around waiting, was because she finished early, not just because the others were behind....? Maybe OMGWTF or Melinda could chime in, with there actual match experience...how long did they take, just out of curoisty? Aside from that, the entry fee has nothing to do with the time spent on tables, we pay additional green fees, via dollars in the table for every game played..
Which brings up another point...adding even just the 1 extra game on the winners side (which could be 2 in a H/H match), would also bring in increased revenue for the BCA.