Really, only one change, maybe.
Donald A. Purdy said:
OHB, I don't doubt what you are saying about yourself. You do not have to prove anything to me. You have obvously done something else besides play pool. How much of the pool earnings did you stash away, and the biggie, what was the trade off? Would you try it today? If you could, what is the one thing you would change about your past?
Your Friend, Purdman
Purdman - As far as - How much did I Stash Away question - Not as much as I should have BUT more than most. While "On The Road", I did accumulate quite a bankroll because I sent all cash home when it got over $1,500. I am also lucky to have my only brother being a VERY successful investment banker who owns his own brokerage company in Ladue, MO
In 1974 he advised me to put a down stroke on 2, 4 family flats in south St. Louis, - and I did. They have since been paid off and will be providing a nice income for life.
I am also lucky that my wife is employed at Washington University and has a very good family med plan.
SO YOU SEE - I HAVE BEEN VERY LUCKY AND AM VERY AWARE OF IT.
That is why I say - "I'd rather be Fat & Lucky, Than just plain old FAT".
You have no idea how many times that saying has "Red-Assed" a player to "Go-Off' after he has accused me of "Shiting Out On Him".
I guess if I could change one thing about my past, - it
MAY BE - the decision to not put forth my best effort in major tournaments.
I was always convinced that more money could be made by setting an image in the minds of all the spectators and reaping the rewards while playing off the "Lemon" that they had witnessed.
I'm sorry if this offends anyone BUT where else can you go and have that many people watch you play at a level under yourself and be sure that this the way you will play while playing them for their CASH.
Now that is brutally honest and maybe too harsh for some readers, BUT it -
"W A S"
The way I had always played in tournaments.
I learned and developed this M.O. way back in Johnston City when I was 19 or so.
Now I have to really ask myself -
IF, I were to have put forth my best effort (starting at 19) and pursued every tournament with the talent I had and the desire to win every match I played - Would I have made it to the level of say a "Buddy" OR "Efren" ??? I don't honestly think so. - BUT - Lets say I did, would I be better off ???
I don't think I would have the 3 most important elements of my current life - my wife Rita, my son Tommy and my daughter, Katie.
So my ego may have some doubts - But - my common sense and knowledge tell me other wise.
TY & GL