And I may be "wrong", but I suspect you are an established poster here & have just made this new name.
Why do I suspect that? Your sign in name is "Gwen's up", which is a woman's name. For a woman to log onto AZB primarily to look at cues and cue BUILDING is surprising to me because I am not aware of very many women cue builders.
Also, what makes you think that this forum is any different than a slice of regular society? Everywhere in the world has groups of people who make friends & it's human nature to spend most of our time talking with & being friendly with those we know, trust & like. So, if a group of people get along with each other pretty well, respond to each others posts, PM's, etc., why would that be considered cliquish??? Why can't it be friends paling around? If a group of guys get together in a pool room to shoot, are they friends or a "clique"?
For someone "new", what makes you think that after 11 posts, everybody here knows you as well as those who have posted 3,000 - 7,000 times?
You sound or seem miffed that certain people get along really well here.
"New here" and cliques upset you.....right!
You feel that something is "very wrong" with people getting along with those we feel closest to and like the most??? If you're that disappointed with this crowd here because certain people have their favorites, just like we all have our favorite people at work, school, church or any where else we go that we're familiar with, then something IS "very wrong."
If you are not already an established poster here and really are Gwen who is into cue building, that's beautiful!
Either way, old or new, I'll stand by the rest of my post.
I almost hit "submit reply" right there, but there's more....
Many of the posters here spend an hour or more a DAY reading & posting here. After thousands of hours here, the way I read your post, we should all be communists or whatever it is where everything is equaled out with everybody else? We're not supposed to be "cool" with those who have befriended us from day one???
See, we're friendly with those who are friendly BACK, not with the handful of misfits, whacko's or wannabeknowitalls who most of us ignore.
So, for you to be happy, YOU should tell ME who I should enjoy the most here. YOU should tell EVERYBODY here who we should or should not compliment, because according to your post, it's "very wrong" for someone to offer "praise" or "goes wild" over something that THEY think is worthy of such accolades. That doesn't make any sense to me. So, according to your logic, we should "go wild" over what YOU think we should "go wild over"?
How do you think the "big names" cuebuilders you groused about got to be "big names"??? Not by selling "rent-a-cues", that's for sure.
Of the 12,000 + members here, I can think of 5 who I personally don't like.
There's about 40 that I feel very close to. The rest are just basic people like me who enjoy the things of pooldom. For you to complain so strongly about "cliques" so early into your "new" time here is very surprising. That's not very typical of a brand new member here.
Lastly, then I got to go watch some Accu-Stats, everybody here can't get along the same way with everybody because everybody here doesn't know everybody the same way. And some we know wouldn't be the types we hang out with anywhere. Even in a pool room.
I don't know why, but your post hit a nerve or something in my head. Complaining so strong right out the gate? There's more there than you're letting on.
Edited to add PS- You sound jealous that one of your cues was not given the rave review of a rental cue is what came to my mind.