I've said it before and I'll say it again. There are two types of pool people in this world: pool purists and action enthusiasts.
Actually Jen, there are a LOT more types of people in this world than the two you mentioned. Let me give you an example of two more:
1.) The type that thinks it's okay to use abusive language towards someone (children included, or at least in the presence of them) for what are often VERY small etiquette infractions committed by overly zealous fans and/or fans in attendance that haven't a clue as to what proper pool etiquette even is.
2.) The type that understand and abhor the unnecessary use of words and/or actions that are deemed improper in a decent society.
The key point in the OP is the language that Mr. Strickland used in the verbal confrontation between himself and the fan that patted him on the back. It could have (and SHOULD have) been handled with a bit more tact in the presence of what was probably several (at least) decent and upstanding human beings. The problem is, today's society tolerates way too much of this type of behaviour. It isn't necessary. It isn't proper. Let's leave Mr. Strickland's abilities out of the equation and focus more on his shortcomings in the public relations department, which I believe is what the OP intended.
Here are a few examples of Mr. Stricklands misguided direct assaults over the years I've either read/heard about or seen firsthand:
1.) IPT tournament. Proceeded to not only verbally abuse Nick VanDen Berg during a match, but just for the full effect, proceeded to tear into Nick's family (who were sitting way up high in the stands) with a very classless display of verbal name-calling.
2.) Once tore into somebody sitting in the stands during one of his matches for making too much noise eating from a bag of Potato Chips, as if to blame that person for his problems during that match. Really??? When he plays pool in the poolhall (as he's done countless times), is it always in a church-like atmosphere???
3.) While standing outside of the building after a match that he just lost a few minutes earlier, gave a verbal tongue-lashing to a father (with his young son beside him) who had asked for an autograph.
4.) Seen him go on full-tilt (including some verbal abuse) on a fan of his opponents just because the fan was encouraging his favorite player during his walk up to the table.
5.) The countless times I have watched one of his matches not going his way turn into a classless display of whining/moaning about how lucky his opponent is all the while his opponent sits in his chair demonstrating proper table-side manners (even when Mr. Strickland himself gets a lucky roll or two).
These are just a few examples of what I would hazard a guess to say were several in MANY instances of classless behaviour exhibited by Mr. Strickland over the years. I am not always siding with his fans because yes, there are those times when he should not have been approached before a proper "cool down" period was allowed, but we do not know all the facts in these cases and what knowledge these otherwise good and decent human beings had of any pre-existing circumstances or knowledge of proper etiquette.
Bottom line is: He could have just handled a LOT of past issues with a bit more class, the kind of decency that most simple followers/players of pool deserve.
We tend to tolerate too much these days from classless people, especially when one has a skill in a given fan-based sport.
There seems to be those on here that think anything he does is okay because they know him. That opinion is certainly biased. Not saying it is wrong of those to think that way, but it cannot be argued that it is not biased.
Since this is a public forum and everyone is giving (and is entitled to) an opinion, here is mine: Talent does NOT give a free pass for unprofessional/classless behaviour.
That said, I hope and pray that Mr. Strickland finds a way to overcome his "demons" without sacrificing his abilities. If you can't agree that he has problems, then you're too close to the man to see the true picture. It's obvious.
Tony "Maniac" Metz