That I don't know about. I don't bet on things I have no control over.androd said:when you lose your money in a casino (slots), you can't beat yourself up for dogging it. you were just unlucky, with no personal skill involved it makes taking getting beat easier.
yeah i'm not a slot player either, i am a pool player and have the courage of my convictions. no one knows what will happen in the future, but it's very unlikely i'll die broke because i gamble, as someone mentioned earlier.Black-Balled said:That I don't know about. I don't bet on things I have no control over.
Perhaps I need to re-eval my earlier stance: maybe I am not a gambler: I don't like to bet money on pool, I like to win money at pool.
Gregg said:I play for the respect of my peers.
I went from an APA SL2 who could not make a ball or win a game, up to a three, four, and now a pretty good SL5 able to compete with SL6s. Pool does not come easy, and I have to work very hard to improve. More than most players.
Nothing is better when a teammate, opposing team member, or best of all opponent compliments my game.
Black-Balled said:IMO, the best compliment is the forking over of the cashish.
Now, if you wished to play for $ and were aware of your progress, you could have been getting paid as you improved...
Blackjack said:Been to war, seen combat, lived to tell about it.
Beat cancer - not once - but twice.
I put my life on the line and patrolled the streets as a cop every night for 5+ years...
I don't think I have a problem with bravery.
About 25 years ago, I looked around the pool hall I played at and I saw 10-15 examples of what I did not want to become in life. I've known lots of people that gambled their entire life and they had nothing to show for it except mounting debts and broken relationships. I've seen many of the best gamblers live from wager to wager, from bet to bet, eventually they all died broke. Every last one of them.
This leads me to believe that there is no pot of gold at the end of that rainbow. Your experience may be different than mine, but I have never met a pool player that found the pot of gold - and if they did - they pissed it up a rope or lost it all afterwards. It's a cycle.
Most of the successful and financially well off people that I know (in and out of pool) are successful because they have worked their asses off.
Myself, I stopped gambling many years ago. It caused me nothing but problems - win or lose - I was always chasing a bigger pay day - and it was addictive and destructive in my life. I stopped and I could care less what anybody has to say about it. My life is better because of it.
I have nothing against those who do gamble - with the exception of those that insinuate that their must be a lack of testicular fortitude in those that don't - without knowing the entire story. Each case is different and we each make decisions in our lives based on our experiences.
In my experience, gambling destroyed several relationships in my life - and no amount of money will ever heal those wounds. Some of those people passed on prior to me stopping. The best I can do today is set a better example for my children - that is more important than what any pool player might think about me.
lowcel said:I'm a married man with two car payments, a motorcycle payment, a mortgage, a wife with student loans and some other bills. I work hard for my money, a full time job and a small family business. I am more interested in keeping the bill collectors off of my back than I am about winning or losing a few bucks playing pool.
Don't get me wrong, a small friendly wager is fun from time to time I just don't need to do it in order to enjoy the game.
mullyman said:I don't gamble because nothing good can come from it. I've seen too many arguments get started over people losing money. Just last week these guys were in a ring game here and I was over playing the slot machines. One of the guys came over all pissed off because he lost about 70 bucks. He was sitting there slapping the buttons on the machine and just being real irritable. I hate that in a person. Granted, not everyone is like that but I've yet to meet the person that says "Hey, I just lost a hundred bucks, man I feel great."
Screw that, my livelihood doesn't depend on taking money from people gambling on pool.
And hey, I don't like losing money either.
MULLY
back2good1 said:I don't mean any disrespect... but I do not get the whole "I love the game thus I do not gamble" story.
I love the game... and I cannot imagine not placing the occasional wager on game. IMO, gambling has made me a better player. I have been all over the country and gambled in every city I ever played in and never had any problems. I am talking about games ranging from sets where I gave up the 7 out to sets where I got the orange crush... (Hey Keith, how ya doin)
This is not the only game in which people fall in love and gamble with at the same time... take golf for example. I know people who are fanatical about golf and they cannot play a single round without betting something... closest to the pin, longest drive, putting out with an iron... etc...
-Back2good1