With so many on the market, and such a huge difference in price range how do you go about getting the best cue?
By asking for advice the way you have just done. By testing out different cues to see which is the best cue FOR YOU.
There is no way you can honestly test them all so is price the main factor along with what is around your area of purchase?
No, price is not the main factor for decision making in low end or high end cues. It depends upon what you are looking for in a cue. Performance, quality of workmanship, beauty and collectability are all important factors for some to consider..
Everyone will have a favorite for various reasons, and many not very sound. Chevy vs Ford type of thing..
Are custom cues really custom?
Yes
Unlike golf clubs or motorcycles that are actually built for one person how are they called custom cues when not truly made for one person?
Those are not, imo.
Is there really that much difference in a $40 house cue vs a $ 2500 custom?
Yes.
I hear many times that it doesn't matter the cost of the cue, but the person behind it. So why do people buy expensive cues vs a $40 house cue or cheap two piece?
Because they want a cue to look a certain way or want the cue to play a certain way.
Would you buy older cues online or would you just stick to what you can touch before you spend money?
I would not buy any older cue online unless I tested the cue myself. I would however, go the pool room and ask everyone if you can hit a few shots with their cue and form your own opinion.
Can you honestly feel a difference between low end vs high end cues?
I think I can, most of the time.
What brand sells the best line up from top to bottom? Subjective I know, but wanted to throw that out.
OB cues for American made production cues, imo.
IMO its very frustrating trying to push back the BS, and get the nuts, and bolts to the forefront.
Is it one of those things in life when people think more money equals better product when in real world truth not so much?
Value is sometimes in the eye of the beholder, much like beauty.