GENO!!! Come on buddy, we've been around too long. I would have been asking all the questions BEFORE we got in my car! I would have given the guy a good interrogating first to see where he's at. I can smell a rat a mile away.
Two quick stories similar to yours. Im driving my '47 pick-up from Bakersfleld to L.A. with my five year old daughter sitting next to me. We stop for gas in Castaic and at the on ramp there's a guy with a back pack thumbing a ride. I stop and tell him I'm heading to Los Angeles. He gets in NEXT TO MY DAUGHTER. Pretty soon he's rambling on and on about someone chasing him and he needs to get away. Then he takes out a small screwdriver and starts cleaning his nails with it. I really don't like this anymore. My sweet little girl is right next to him. I pull over at the next rest area and tell him I need to take a piss. I have my .25 Browning in my pocket (I never traveled unarmed in those days).
I get out of the truck (with my keys of course) and walk quickly around to his side. I open the door and tell him to get out. He looks puzzled and surprised but he complies. I told him this is as far as he's going with me. Now I have him out of the truck, just me and him. I was young, strong, armed and ready. He looks in my eyes, shrugs his shoulders and walks away. Never again do I pick up a hitchhiker with my daughter in the car!
Second story. I fly to Phoenix to pick up a VW van I had just bought on eBay, maybe 10 years ago. I had taken the precaution of checking a Ruger .22 pistol in its case and taking it with me. Good thing as it turns out. I get the van and start driving home by way of Vegas. I stop and take a nap about 50 miles out of Vegas. I'm laying down in the back of the van with the doors locked and the gun under my pillow. After a couple of hours there is a knock on my window (there's curtains all around). I'm on the side of the highway, pulled way over. I pull the curtain and can see it's a young guy, also with a large pack. I grab my gun (he can't see it) and ask him what he wants.
He says he's stranded and needs a ride to Vegas. I told him to wait a minute. I get in the drivers seat and take a good look at him, now standing by the passenger door. We talk through the window and I decide to give him a ride. I unlock the door and he gets in the passenger seat. My gun is right along side me on the panel by my seat the whole time I'm driving. It's a great little gun, the small .22 western style revolver that Ruger makes. It holds six LR cartridges and I'm VERY accurate with it. I have shot it quite a bit and I can hit a bottle at 50'. He seems cool enough as we drive along, just a normal guy looking for a lift. WRONG!!!!
As we near Vegas I decide to stop for gas in Boulder and grab a snack. He now tells me he has no money. His voice and attitude change and I make note of that as I pull in. This guy WANTS money from me. Big red light! I tell him okay no problem. I stop quickly in the parking lot and jump out. I put the gun in the front pocket of my jeans as I get out (yes it's that small). He's still sitting in the van. I walk around to his side. Now he puts the window down and asks me if I want to buy a gun!!! Yes, you heard me right. I told him to let me see it, but very carefully. He says it's not loaded and reaches into his pack. I move slightly back, like where a cop would stand. He would have to open the door or look back at me through the window. I've got him covered although he doesn't know that.
He slowly extracts a gun from his pack. I can see it. He holds it up for me to see, his hand cradling it around the cylinders in a non threatening position. He is being very careful how he shows it to me. And that's a good thing. He hands it to me out the window. I take the gun from him. It's an old S&W .38 revolver with the hidden hammer guard. I check and it's unloaded. GOOD, he wasn't lying. I ask him how much he wants and he tells me $50. I give him the money and keep the gun. I tell him to go inside and I will put the gun away and come in. He has fifty bucks and goes on into the MacDonalds. I get in my van and take off.
I know now that this guy wasn't such a cool guy. In other circumstances he may have tried to rob me. My instincts saved me that time Geno! Trust your instincts next time buddy.