Jay,
If we could someday sick down over dinner, I would love to parse your rankings with you.
As for best money player, that was the one catagory that I left off my rankings. Here's why.
There are so many variables to consider in money games. As you well know, tournament play means everyone in that particular tournament plays under the exact same conditions, with the exception of "luck" or "Unlucky" draw, ie, who you gotta play. With money match ups, some players have home court advantage, spots are given or taken, results are not always remembered or recorded accurately, etc. To me, it's so much easier to base a players over all strength on his tournament record against his contemporaries.
Let me go on here. As an example, when I consider who's on the G.O.A.T. list, I strongly consider their major tournament wins and placings, the longevity of their career, how knowledgable pool historians view them, what their peers had to say about them, how they held up under pressure, THEIR GAMBLING PEDIGREE OR LACK THEROF, how well versed they were in other cue disciplines, what shots they had in their arsenal, the amount of fear they caused their opponants, etc. Gambling escapades are not as easily verified as tournament wins. To me , the best players are those who have done the best in major tournaments. I give lots more credibility to a players verified credentials than I do gambling lore. But, we all are different and each of us gauges greatness on what WE think is relative or important.
As for the part I quoted in your post, to me, and this is only my opinion, Buddy is by FAR the better of the two in tournament AND GAMBLING. Buddy had a streak there for about 10 years where he was all but unbeatable. Every major player who gambled has tales of matching up with Buddy, and they all regard him with a high level of respect in this area. Conversely, I am aware of Parica's reputation as a much feared money king also. The difference is, Parica played a bunch of guys from the (and to borrow a phrase from YOU

, "don't shoot me"), west coast. Who, by the way, WE ALL KNOW ARE NOT AS STRONG AS THOSE ON THE EAST COAST.
Plus, and this is very important, at the level they both played on, there was no stalling, neither of them was on the lemon. My point is that Buddy played at that super strenght in tournament play as well. He brought the same speed to money games as he brought to tournament games. And visa-versa. Parica, if he was as great as you say he was in money games, was not able to bring that same dominance to tournament play. And that's the biggest difference. Parica does NOT have a very impressive list of major tournament wins. Lot's of top 2 and 3 finishes for a longer time than Buddy was able to stay at a peak. So I do give the longevity nod to Jose over Buddy. But that's all.
As for HEART, Nick Varner has as much heart as any player who has ever lived. He is the epitomy of "grinder" who never says die. There is no quit in him. For example, rather than lose a rack of one pocket, he would rather put "the wedge" on his opponant and tire them out than to surrender a single rack. Remember how young Nick was when Daddy Warbucks took him to J.City and "unleashed" him on the hustler's. Varner has longevity, certifiable credentials in multiple disciplines, and is feared no matter the game or venue. Plus, all the heart in the world.
I don't know if all that filabustering made sense or not, but I sure feel better getting that out of my head.
Bottom line is that when any of us make these very, very enjoyable lists up, we should all realize that we all have differing criteria on what makes a player eligible or not for inclusion into OUR lists.
All that being said, when considering all time greatest money players ever, we also have to consider Don Willis, Jack Cooney, Denny Searcy, Vernon Elliot, John Fitzpatrick, Johnny Lineen, etc. I could probably list dozens more (Ronnie Allen, Bugs Rucker, Eddie Taylor) who were primarily considered greatest in their chosen discipline, but for some strange reason, always get over looked when great money players are considered.
For example, if I had to bet one set of pool in any of the 5 major disciplines and my life depended on it, I would bet Eddie Taylor in a set of full rack banks, say race to 10, over anyone who ever lived. That, to me, is the stone cold lead pipe cinch bet that just can't lose. But Taylor, who played probably 80% of his matches in money games vs tournaments, is hardly ever considered when it comes to best money players.