Rocket354 said:
I agree it does not excuse his behavior. Anyone waiting for cues should get a full refund or a cue, quick. I also fully support threads that make people aware of the issues, and also serve to hopefully deter such conduct in the future.
However, if it is true that he is having some mental/emotional issues, I also think it's sort of crass to take a lot of joy in mocking him, and almost revel in making fun of him. I'm not much of one for schadenfreude. That's how some of these posts come across to me.
But maybe I'm just being overly-sensitive, as I grew up with what I now recognize as an inordinate number of relatives and friends that had pretty serious problems like that. Often it takes a pretty abrupt, even quite harsh, kick in the butt to get the person headed in the right direction, but open and public mockery is rarely the correct method.
But maybe I'm just being overly-sensitive, as I grew up with what I now recognize as an inordinate number of relatives and friends that had pretty serious problems like that. Often it takes a pretty abrupt, even quite harsh, kick in the butt to get the person headed in the right direction, but open and public mockery is rarely the correct method.[/QUOTE]
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I agree everything we do is based upon personal decisions, kinda like this scenario. During the 1970's I was addicted to drugs, and I lost some good friends. In addition I spent some time in jail, due to bad decisions I made and to my drug abuse. While I was there I made the decision to change my life, and I found religion and then I got out and went back to the drugs. One day I was looking in the mirror and I had a flash of my life up to that point, and it made me sick, ashamed, and disgusted with what I saw. That day I made a decision to change my life, so the next day I joined the US Army.
Basic training was a *****, I was drug sick and I thought what the hell am I doing. One of the Drill Sergeants saw that I was having both physical and mental issues adjusting and he pulled me aside after that days training and told me that he knew what I was going through. He also told me that it would not be easy but never yo quit, and as long as I kept fighting and doing the right things he would help me through these rough times, but he also told me I had to act like a man, and stand up and that only I can learn to respect myself. Well, I made it through Basic training, and the Military gave me the Values and integrity I live by to this day. I also credit the Military for my personal rebirth, because I would not be here typing if I had not made the decision to change myself for the better. Everything I am, is directly due to that Drill Sergeant and his faith in me.
So then I met my Beautiful wife Jennie, while I was stationed at Ft. Stewart, GA. This along with our Daughter gave me additional strength and reasons to never look back at my past. Then my Daughter became disabled due to illness that attacked her brain. Now it would have been very easy to make excuses fall back into my old way of life, but I had to use my anger, sadness, and heart break to become strong. Because if I feel apart who would care for my family, the answer is easy
NO ONE, it was my responsibility and only mine. So my wife and I found ways to keep our family together, my daughter has been cared for our home her entire life, which could end anytime. But, even the fear of this can give some one strength and life can go on, and I thank God every day she is still here, and every day is nothing but a blessing.
Well then life has gone forward, in 1999 I became ill, for some unknown reason I could not sleep. For seven days I did not sleep, and on the 7th day, I went to the Military medical facility for help. I was diagnosed with Post traumatic Stress syndrome (PTSD), at this time I had 18 years on active duty in the US. Army. I was told that I would need to be on medication to help me sleep and to help deal with my problems. To this day, I have never been able to stop taking the medication, it has brought me back form beyond. I retired from the US Army in 2003 and continued to fight the good fight and do the right things, for my family First and for myself respect always.
I now own a small pool hall, I am learning to build custom cues and I take pride in everything I do. Maybe that is why I have a very low tolerance for bull $hit, maybe that is why I find no excuse for bad behavior, maybe all of this is why I think integrity and honesty are the most important things that any of us have. You certainly have a right to your opinion, and I can even understand how you feel, but try walking a mile in some else's shoes before you judge another.
Enclosing, I must say that I love this forum, there certainly is no better forum of its kind. I know that I rub many people the wrong way, however, it is certainly not because I want anything from anyone here, I only want to be part of this wonderful place. I do not want Money, reputation points, or any other form of ego stroking. I only want this forum to continue to be the place it is. It has given me a place to get away, some times it is my only escape, because I still do not always sleep well. I value the friends I have made here and all I have learned here, it also helps give me the strength to do the right thing day after day!!!!
I hope you understand where I am coming from now!!
Have a good night!!!!!
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