Jim,
I see where you are coming from as well. Let me make clear that I was speaking from the viewpoint of the person "calling" the foul. Personally, if I am playing league, I am going to act according to my personal core values when it comes to these situations.
Yes, I understand that at times, because I think like this, a lower-ranked player is going to get one over on me from time to time. That being said, I still will not "personally" make the choice to take a shot from my opponent in any but the most obvious cases.
If they are a lower ranked player and pull a "move" on me, then I will enforce everything from that point on. Most likely, they are not going to win unless they are sandbagging their rating, anyways. If they are a good player, I expect them to be a good sportsman as well. If not, then I will deal with that as it comes.
It may be as you say, and my experience may not be broad enough. I played perhaps two or three nights of APA 9 ball, got disgusted with the rules, and no longer subbed for that team anymore. I've done just fine in weekly open tournaments though..
And that is generally what I prefer: Open tournaments, winner-breaks, no handicaps. Maybe I am not cut out for league play. I like to compete against multiple top notch players in one evening. I had a practice session with Blackjack, and he suggested I should immediately hop into the Seminole events and leave the King's Bay tournaments alone. I am still trying to make up my mind on that. I LOVE winner breaks formats, but then again, I haven't played any good players in so long, the amateur events might get me back in the competitive groove.
Either way, I was merely making a statement about how I personally would choose to handle these situations. I can pay close attention to calling my own shots if needed, that's not the problem. I just enjoy competing against other good players, acting like honorable gentlemen and women. If someone plays a safe and accidentally makes a ball on me, and they act like they intended that... And I STILL beat them.. Well, for me...That's a moral victory..
Russ