I built a cue here for a local kid and he has been playing with it. I only asked that he tell people who made it. Nothing was formalized. Also note I consider this young man to be a friend.
Recently, he was offered a better deal from someone else. This offer came from someone else I knew and was done without my knowledge. I was made aware when someone asked me how I felt about it.
After some initial anger, and talking it out with some friends, I told him the cue was his to keep and that I would support him regardless of his choice. Furthermore, I suggested that if a better deal come about, that he take it. I implied there would be no hard feelings and that I would have liked a phone call next time before finding out elsewhere.
My question is.... is this sort of thing normal?
Recently, he was offered a better deal from someone else. This offer came from someone else I knew and was done without my knowledge. I was made aware when someone asked me how I felt about it.
After some initial anger, and talking it out with some friends, I told him the cue was his to keep and that I would support him regardless of his choice. Furthermore, I suggested that if a better deal come about, that he take it. I implied there would be no hard feelings and that I would have liked a phone call next time before finding out elsewhere.
My question is.... is this sort of thing normal?