If you're capable of it, then you can do it...
Thank you all for the great advice. It has definitely given me a different perspective into what it is that I really want. I now realize that I want to achieve the Pro-level of play more so than the life style. Maybe that will hinder my progress in the long term. Don't get me wrong, I love the game as much as anyone, It's on my mind all the time. I will still keep pushing forward in my attempts to get better, plan on competing all year round as much as I can.There's no quit in me. I play with someone who has played with all the greats of past and present and even today in his mid 60's is good enough to play anyone....he tells me I can definitely do it if I keep the right mindset, he thinks that by 35 I can be there. He played all his life but also worked and ran a business for all of his adult life and was still able to play at Pro levels. It can be done, maybe he's the exception. one way or the other I intend to find out. Thank you all again and keep the advice coming. I need all the help I can get.
I"m not one of those people who thinks you had to be born with a silver cue in your mouth to get to the top. I do think there has to be some inate ability and talent there to get to that level though.
There's this guy I know, although we are not blood related most people think we are brothers. We call each other brother and we are close like brothers and we look like brothers.
We met in the Navy and back when PHJs came out we ended up going and seeing it. After the movie I asked him if he wanted to learn how to play really good. He answered with three words that would change his life forever...
"Sure, Why not?"
I had already been planning on going to the poolhall that night, so I said come on follow me to the pool hall and I"ll teach you how to play.
He might have picked up a cue three or fours times before that day. I wouldn't let him just play. I taught him the fundamentals and made him do drills.
Over the next six months, you couldn't pull him away from the table and I had him do progressive drills as he got better and more consistent.
I know APA rankings don't necessarily mean much, but he was a nine in APA nineball and a seven in APA eightball within like 8 months of starting to play. I don't play leagues, but some peopel enjoy them.
I can't know for sure, but I don't think he could've gotten as good as he did without innate talent for the game, whether it's superior hand/eye, geosptial relational ability etc... who knows. I also don't think he would've gotten as good as he did as quickly without having been taught proper mechanics from the get go.
He DEFINITELY, would not have gotten there without the absolute drive to get there. The first nine months that he played on a serious level he was playing 9-12 hours a day, five-seven days a week and everyone I know that is at that level has done the same thing...
He has gotten to the point where he's probably going to come onto the scene pretty strong and surprise a lot of people. But it's been almost seven years in the coming. He's had to work REALLY hard to overcome the mental demons that crop up for everyone. That's the really hard part.
Some people will never overcome them. If you have innate ability and you get the right instruction, you can play top level pool, but that doesn't mean that you can be a top level player.lol... we all have demons to overcome. Some can and some can't. IMO that's the biggest obstacle to becoming a top level player.
Jaden