On that point, its funny how getting weight seems to be less than giving up the equal weight. Getting the 8 ball doesn't feel like much but when I give up the 8 it seems like its a bigger spot. I realize it depends on who your playing etc. I'm saying all things being equal, just in theory getting is nothing and giving up is a ton.
Perhaps thats because I'm not a real strong player, I suppose If I was capable of playing like a AAA player or just below the champions then it mite be different. I just know when I get the 8 it dont feel like much and when I give it up I can feel it lots more. Same for the 5, I play good enough to give the 5 to some guys and i feel like I got to run out every game(I have to to win), when I get the 5 i'm playing someone so good they can hit me with a 6 pack. funny how that works.
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Here is a more recent story about weight
I lost $9,000 this year to a guy over 10 sessions playing 8 ball, 4 racks was how many games I was down at the end. the amount bet moved around so the $$$ ended up being $9,000. Most games 90% were $1000/rack. we played 8 ball. Probably 200 racks i would guess i dont know i could be way off i was too focused to remember that, i just know the end of each session numbers. I gave him a huge spot in the beginning and won $5400. Then I gave him more weight he laid 6/5 on the $$$ $1200 to my $1000/game. Each session he played better, he played years ago so he never picked the wrong balls off, he had all the breaks so sometimes he would win 2 in a row(3 one time I never got up). As he kept getting better, back to his old self the weight was getting heavier and heavier, we lowered the spot to every other rack(Id win the pick 4 he would win the pick 5-I couldnt out run it by now around the 5th session). One session he beat me 5 games one 4 games. We broke even probably 5 or 6 times. He bought his own cue after 4 or 5 sessions and I noticed the shaft was darker(he was practicing before we played somewhere else), I was too but I was instroke and he was getting instroke. I could tell he knew what he was doing even when he played bad and I won $5400, he didnt think bad and didnt miss, his speed control was not good. he didnt rattle for the $$. I tried to jack the bet up when I had the best of it, he didnt. Point is he got back in gear and slowly over a 3-4 week period the weight was more than I could fade and I lost. 4 games behind 9 dimes.
We switched to 9 ball, he wanted the 4, I agreed. I was stuck $4,000 that day, I said "Ok the 4 is fine", I wanted to give him the 5 but figured it was close enough, I only had 6K left, I thought we were gona bet $1000/game. He wanted to bet $100. I said "I'm stuck 40 barrels" So I win the first game for $100 or $200, I was pissed he was betting nothing($100 is nothing when you been playing for $1000 for 3 weeks), the next game he thought he was getting the 4-out, we had a refree we agreed on, there was a big beef. he didnt know the difference between the 4 and the 4 out(i know he did-it was a move to end the action). Shane could give him the 4 out and mite win, I sure as hell couldnt win. I dont know if I liked the 4, but I was playing good and had my nose open, I asked to play for $500/game he wouldnt. The game ended I never played him again. I dont know what happpened to the $100 or $200 I won in the first game of 9 ball, we didnt finish the 2nd game because of the beef, so he out managed me too. i learned something there. I have been up $$ and switched games to get out with the $$$, but he blind sided me with that move, he could have won a pile more-for that reason and the fact he is loaded(over 100 million easy) I didnt see him ducking out, he had me hooked and I couldnt high roll him. So I got beat and out managed. Never too old to learn, he used my moves on me. I hate when that happens.
What really sucks is I wish I could be in action like this all the time, sure I lost but I could have won, I did win once. This guy had heart and was smart. Maybe he saw something he didnt like and got out with the $$, I was very suprised he made that move, its hard to find anyone who will play everyday for $$ without changing the spot if they lose, or barely change it. They want to go from the 8 ball to the 5 ball after they blow $100, thats LA style pool and why i'm not playing.