Poolmouse,
If it please the forum, here's the way I see it. :smile:
By the very definition of "professional," it means the pool player shoots pool as his profession, job, livelihood, et cetera. It is my opinion, based on almost 40 years of being around the American pool culture, that a pool player is only as good as how often he hits balls, practices, in order to have his game sharp.
If you were to work, say, a 40-hour week job. It might be difficult to hit, say, 10,000 balls on a daily basis to keep your skills set at maximum performance.
Then there's the necessity to compete in various tournaments to receive those precious so-called "ranking points," which inevitably only gets an American pro player a shot in Mosconi Cup. Truthfully, the way I see it today in 2012, winning tin cups, bragging rights, and $10,000 as a first-place payout, which is an average payout in most high-profile tournaments, isn't enough to afford a pool player to make a "normal" living, one in which they can pay rent, buy a house, eat normal food, and attend two, three, and four tournaments a month, again, to keep their game proficient.
You can't work a 40-hour job, hit balls once or twice a week when time allows, attend one or two tournaments a month on the weekend only, and play at a competitive advantage. It just is not possible.
Most pro players, after shooting competitively for a while, not making ends meet, soon leave competitive pool permanently. There are some enterprising pool players, though, who are able to find a niche in the pool industry and do both. However, their income comes from their pool-related job, not from shooting pool competitively. Allen Hopkins, Nick Varner, Shannon Daulton, Tony Robles, Tony Crosby, and Mike Sigel come to mind. Bravo to them for making it work, but they are the exception rather than the rule.
A lot of forum members slammed Danny Harriman for not accepting the offer to shoot in Vegas where he was guaranteed money, win or lose. Here's where it gets sticky. Let's say, hypothetically, Danny was working a 40-hour-a-week job. He takes off a week from his employer, hoping to get permission, and goes to Vegas. He wins! He comes back to his job, but his employer decides the company cannot afford to have someone leave sporadically to shoot pool. Danny might win, say, $5,000 in Vegas, but he would lose, again, hypothetically, a $35,000-a-year job, one that provides financial security, et cetera. :smile:
Now, here's where I agree with you, Poolmouse. Pool players, ones who want to compete professionally, should either sh*t or get off the pot, as the saying goes. Unless you're willing to sacrifice financial security, a roof over your head, a loving spouse willing to keep the family afloat, then the pool player should quit playing professionally and get a job, washing dishes, as you say. At least there is regularity in the income. In pool, you can win $10,000, but still be stuck from previous pool expenditures.
And I have a very strong opinion, with few exceptions, that most of the male so-called pro pool players have substance abuse problems, whether prescription pills, pot, or alcohol; and cheat on their spouses/girlfriends with the prostitutes on a regular basis at tournaments when they travel solo. In fact, one unnamed Mosconi Cup team member at an unnamed Mosconi Cup event spent more time in his hotel room with paid prostitutes than he did practicing with his team, and another unnamed one can't hit a ball without popping prescription pills (plural).
The activities similar to these are why I quit being active on the pro tournament trail. I wasn't going to let it ruin me or those I love.
We also have some excellent pro players in America with high moral standards and I'm proud to see them represent the United States wherever they play.
I'm going to end my post with a true story. I have a friend who was charged with child sex abuse. He was 22 years old and attended a keg party, which was held out in a rural field out in the country. After some complaints came to the police department, the cops came and busted the party due to the loud noise. The cops arrested a lot of people, minors and adults that attended this party. My friend was making out -- KISSING -- a girl, who was 17 years old. When her parents came to pick her up at the police station, she said she was drunk and didn't know what she was doing. She got off, but my friend got busted for child sex abuse and giving alcohol to a minor, a charge he has to live with for the rest of his life. He's almost 60 today and is still living with the consequences of this happening that occurred when he was 22 years old. :frown:
In sum, people who don't know all the details of happenings can come to their own conclusions, as many have in this thread, but I have a different stance sometimes. I don't pass judgment too often unless I know all the facts, and this applies to pool players who shoot professionally. Unless you walk in their shoes, you can't know what it's like.
Mama, don't let you babies grow up to be pool players...unless you live in the Philippines.