Joey: It's not that I'm anti-american, I'm anti-nationality. I don't say rah-rah germany either. When I watch players shoot, I just don't see it as 'that guy's american' and 'that guy isn't'. I certainly don't see 'robots' or 'aliens'. I see people and I could care less about where they were born.
Also, maybe she and TheOne have history... but eleven or twelve people were offended in that thread by what she said, and I'm one of them. So... I handle it personally (and yes, I tried doing so via PM rather than call her out in a public forum. She chose to ignore it).
jam said:
People who know me well would laugh at this statement, me being prejudice.
I don't think you even know you have it, so you can say things like that and believe it.
Okay, the next time you're around all your foreign friends at the pool hall, tell them that the only reason their amateurish countrymen get to play in some of our events is because of the giant brown spots on their nose. Disrespect some of their heros. Call your friends boring robotic alien players. Complain about how they're screwing up american events like the US Open, maybe imply they're robbing deserving americans of the chance at the title. If they aren't shooting with american cues, tell them they're playing with foreign-made pieces of crap. Then do the verbal equivalent bold red capital letters "USA ALL THE WAY" to them.
Can you see where they might be offended?
I could say the same about your contributions to the forum.
...outside of all this squabbling with you, I seem to do OK. I get along with other people (even Russ, sort of, lol). I talk about pool in my other posts and I get the occasional thank-you note or rep. It's just that stuff you say really pushes my buttons and brings out the worst in me. I sincerely would rather stick to talking pool and not have this negative stuff every time I go to look at new posts.
You're entitled to your opinions about foreign players, and maybe you feel like "if anyone tries to shut me up and keep my from voicing my opinion, I'll just say it twice as loud". Well, that's spirited and all, but sometimes discretion is best.
I truly think you bring up nationality in threads where it isn't relevant. I'm not saying "never talk about nationality", just don't drag it out when it's got nothing to do with the current topic. It's annoying. It's like you go to a dinner party expecting to have enjoyable food and conversation, and some guy starts bringing up abortion or gun control and suddenly a dozen people are yelling at each other. All of this could be avoided if you'd stop going out of your way to say shit like BY THE WAY USA ALL THE WAY in giant red letters every day.