While reading this thread, I told myself not to get into it. I know how these things go, and it isn't pretty. I enjoy GreyGhosts posts 99.99% of the time, and I can tell he is passionate about this subject.
Sadly, there are a few problems with your arguments, GGhost. I'm not going to get into the whole thing, but I do want to point out one glaring difference that kids today face compared to when we were kids. You think a little conflict and confrontation is good for kids, and getting punched sometimes will happen. Tell me this: do you ever remember kids bringing guns to school when we were kids, much less actually using them? It is scary being a kid today. The pressures are FAR different than when we were kids. Weapons are far more readily available, and the whole population is desensitized to their being used. Kids get KILLED for their freakin sneakers. For "disrespecting" another kid. And a whole host of other reasons. Not even starting with the drugs that are available today compared to our generation.
Going to school is a nightmare for many kids. There isn't enough supervision and kids get abused big time. Even the ones who aren't necessarily "weirdos" like you describe. I think by your post, you believe that it's good for kids to get beaten up now and again. What are you as a parent supposed to tell your kid when they are scared to death to go to school? That they aren't tough enough?
And then there is this wonderful outlet we are using right now. The internet, and everything related. Facebook, Twitter, text messaging, and the rest. Kids get ridiculed and bullied at a far greater level than we ever thought of, and a far faster pace.
Too weak, too sensitive, too protected? I do everything I can possibly do to protect my kids in todays world, and I know it isn't necessarily enough. We've been lucky so far, and my guys are wonderful kids. And they can stand up for themselves if they need to. But I see many of their peers who have been on the wrong end of things and it ain't because they were weak. It was because they weren't as protected (or as lucky) as my kids are.
As for the rest of your opus, I'll gladly pass on making further comment. I understand where you are coming from, and many or your frustrations. But don't think that kids today aren't facing conflict or are over-protected compared to our generations. Because they sure as hell aren't.
Carry on, and good shooting. One and all.
thats a wonderful and well thought out post my friend. But no I don't beleive them getting beaten up is a good thing, just confrontation is a good thing or can be in its diff forms.
You are correct on the gun stuff, but that also harkens back to the parents. I was taught strongly right and wrong about guns at a very young age.
So if it did so happen that I found a gun in my hands when alone I wouldn't kill myself or harm anyone else.
Kids must be informed and taught by their parents, most of my comments on this are only generalized hope you understand that b/c we could talk all day long and more and never get finished talking about it.
But you cant control what others do.
If they are scared or you are then homeschool them by all means.....but don't shelter them from people and lock them up like I've seen many people do....those are the ones I'm knocking. Those are the ones that grow up and freak out and off the deep end in their lives. My next door neighbor and his 5 girls are great examples of what not to do. I'd swear those girls never saw daylight, no wonder the oldest started messing around with a drug dealer once she moved out! She just wanted the EXACT opposite of good and hearty she had for 18 years.
But yes don't read too deep into my comments, I'm open about alot of my views but some of them are not fully formed on here so no one be jumping to conclusions about me.....I'd say lets just end it right there and if anyone wants to talk further we can do it in private. B/c there's nothing worse than being misunderstood......sometimes its like trying to explain how CTE works via text.
thanks guys/gals
-Keebie