If everything happened as you say
I would place my hand on a bible and say it again.
If everything happened as you say
I dig what you're sayin', but I also think it might depend on the selection process.
Straight up name raffle, as in all the names from your team are in a hat, your name gets pulled ? I'd say luck o' the draw, keep the cash.
If the team has to collectively agree to put up one guy to break, then yeah, split it up. My only caveat would be that it gets split between the cats that were there.
Even aside from all that, it still raises the question as to why the captain waited until a phone call to tell Johnny V that he had to split it...
My captain selected me to break. It was not drawn.
I think the captain was out of line.Maybe not for those who were in attendence but to give $ to those not there was insane or dishonest.It only encourages team mates not to show up in the future.The more people on your team to have tried it the better your chances of winning.Why did the Captain wait so long to ask you for the $1000 back? I feel bad for you, the guidelines on something like this should have been set up by the captain before the event.
YEP.. I am leaning to split, as he was the team representative.I think this puts a little spin to it. at first i was "hell no", but this statment makes it sound like you should have split it with the players that were there...
Just my opinion(I dont know how you and your stake do it) but to me a split=50% for me and 50% for the team to chopMy captain selected me to break. It was not drawn.
My captain selected me to break. It was not drawn.
This has bothered me for the last 5 or so years. So I am hoping that venting here will cleanse my conscience.
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Uhhhh I have not mentioned this to anyone until now cept my better half. I have always gone on the idea that there were people in that group that needed the money more than I did. I just wanted to get it off my chest and see what you all thought of my actions and theirs. Thanks for all the input. I do feel better about it, knowing that there are other places that do the same.After 5 years you still need to vent? Hopefully your conscience does get cleansed and life becomes a little better for you and those around you.
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heh... this talk of 1099 did remind me of a situation that happened around 15 years ago.
There was a neighbor of mine that wanted to buy a computer for his business. I told him that I could build him a computer for a lot cheaper than he would have to pay retail. He asked for me to see what I could do. I think at the time what he wanted was 1200 and I could build it for him around 800. He asked that I add a little for myself so I charged him 850 and did the work. Around that time 50 bucks for labor to build a PC was about 1/4 what places were charging to do one. I built it and loaded his software etc and he was very happy to save as much as he did and thanked me. Well Feb rolled around the next year and I got a 1099 for 850 bucks. :shocked2: I went to his house and asked that he change it and he refused. So I estimate that computer cost me around 250 bucks minus the 50 that he paid me.
I never talked to him again.
They do money cup here in broward apa. Its done the same way, the capts of each team pick a player to get up there and try to snap in the 9. The OP here was NOT randomly drawn, he was CHOSEN by his team to get up there and try to win the cheese. The chop of the dough was totally the right call, although that said....players who dont show for money cup it becomes alot more questionable if they should participate in the cheese cut. Ive seen it both ways, one where the team wont pay off anyone who didnt show up and then the other where the thinking is that everyone helped get the team to money cup (for those who are unfamiliar with money cup....they take teams that win divisions and they do a cash tournament) and therefore everyone should participate in the cash chop even if they were unable to actually compete in money cup.
Here in broward they also do a capts drawing where they toss all the capts names into a hat and draw one. That capt gets $500. I know that the team I play on won the capts drawing last year and they chopped the dough among the team. Not sure if that happens all the time.
For those who said take the dough and quit the team....jesus christ I hope your never on my team. Thats pretty nitty.