It's the whole microwave and internet generation too.... They want everything right now and not have to pay their dues or pay $ to get it.
Why take lessons from a pro like you when they can go to Dr. Daves site and learn for free??? Dr. Daves knowledgeable and all but who has he beat? Tourney or gambling?
People will pay $30 for a piece of chalk looking for a quick fix to their game but will then b!tch if someone lets you in a $5 or $10 tourney.
All of you people that hate on gambling fail to see the critical thing that a pool game needs, grind. Can you learn grind playing tourneys, to an extent, yes. But nothing like you can by getting in the box and putting real money into play and going to war with someone... Lets say you are hiring someone for personal protection as a bodyguard, are you going to hire the guy who is a champion competition shooter or the special forces combat vet that's actually bet it all and put his life on the line?
People on here will blow $K's on cues, but take a look at how they match up. There's *****ing and moaning, haggling, all kinds of stuff and many times nothing happens.
Here's my quick run-down.. started as an average bar player in APA. My captain loved to get me in $1 or $2 games. Eventually, I started catching up. He didn't play that game when the tables turned. I'm not far into a local A level. I'll play some of the good local masters and drop a little money, but if they feel like they're on the short end of the stick, they tend to pull up early. I'm starting to get a bit burnt on that feeling - they want to rob me, but heaven forbid they risk losing a few bucks. Can't wait til I hit master and see the nits come out of the woodwork(or go hide back in the woodwork). On one night, I hang out with my friends, maybe give a spot to play for a few bucks and treat it like an exercise, then on another night I'm the weakest player on a team of people that have spent a lot of time playing for money.
Being a nit has nothing to do with being in a league. APA probably gives people a better idea of the pecking order, but not much else in terms of gambling. These are people that want to go out, have a couple of drinks and hang out with their buddies playing pool. Not a problem, they're contributing to the game. Maybe the problem is that outside of league, there aren't a lot of players left that want to gamble. League shouldn't shoulder that blame.
How about another one.. last Spring at our regional BCA, I played a good master getting the 8. I won. A newer regional grandmaster asked if I wanted to play after. I figure what the heck, I'd fire off some of what I just won. He refused to play banks, refused to give up any kind of a spot other than what I had previously gotten from the master. He ran 5 of the 7 racks, I think, and I didn't get a game. League players are nits? Bah. I think it's closer to the old saying, that there's no honor among thieves.