I do understand the feeling of being "black balled".....and no I don't approve, but when someone holds a grudge for something you may or may not have done it's just life.
Changing someone else's opinion is like changing someone else's tire, it can only happen if both parties agree......and someone has a "jack".![]()
This is my experience anyway.
With all due respect....
Being black balled is "just life"?
This is the part of the whole thing that strikes me as being a problem, when the leader of an organization will actually express that to someone else associated with them.
If it all happened the way it seems, it is tremendously out of line. It is not "just life".
No matter who said what to whose wife. And even that is still yet to be 'splained....
I realize that you are taking up for your good friend. It's to be expected. But please don't think that we, the potential viewing audience, have to accept that kind of behavior.
(Unless we aren't the target audience, which brings us nicely back to the Bonus Ball fiasco.)
Again, I say these things with all due respect to you, JA, MD and anyone else is this little saga. Watching it as an unbiased observer, the whole thing is an embarrassment.