I am thinking about it, and am amazed at your inability to see the obvious. That is, rules are in place, they are supposed to be followed, yet you feel you are above the rules, the rules hold the game back. The game will advance when YOU get to make up your own rules, and anyone that doesn't abide by THEM is a cheat!
You are right in that pool players need to "step up". They need to start acting like professionals and abide by the rules in place, not make up their own as they go along. And, I totally agree that is is the height of ignorance to think that you are allowed to violate any rule that you don't agree with and make up your own and then expect others to abide by your own set of rules.
Try reading the rules sometime Gene. It states that if you don't mark up your game, it is not a win. What part of that don't you seem to understand? If the two is sitting on the lip of the pocket, and I don't see it, and I then shoot the three and run down to the 9 and then see it. Do I then get to shoot the two before the nine and still get the win? Why not? It was just a little mistake. I realized it later, and still shot all the balls in, so I should get the win, right? It's the same thing, Gene. You just can't see it because you don't want to see it and think that rule doesn't need apply to you.
As to your stop sign scenario, the law clearly states how far back you are allowed to stop. You don't get to arbitrarily make up your own distance. Now, I don't know what the law is for where you were at. But, you don't get to say, hey, I did stop, just ten feet back. When the law states within 8 feet. If so, the next guy can argue 11 feet, and so on.
I really don't understand you guys that think you are free to toss out the rule book, and then in so doing, call others cheats, unethical, and holding pool back for following the rules. It's not a win if you don't mark it. So, you are wanting to count a non-win as a win. You want to call "cheater", then look in a mirror and do so. Then, you will be correct.