I'd like to address some points you've made and I'd like to make some of my own. I underlined some of the thoughts in your post that I thought were important to point out. While you've made it clear that you're only trying to provide another point of view, what you've also said could be construed as you basically calling me a liar. I don't know if you simply skimmed over the original post or not but I was very detailed about everything, right down to the dates of the messages, and that's because I still have all of the messages saved. Obviously I can't record telephone conversations legally, so I guess that part is going to have to be believed on faith. I'm not out to ruin anyone, I've given Jim plenty of time and opportunities to make this right, and I've hardly gone through any extra to ruin him.
I think you misunderstood my posts(s). I never called you a liar. That's not my cup of tea. I'm not a judge of other people. I basically offered up a different perspective from an angle not seen yet. Personally, I have no feelings on the matter, could care less past the value of conversation. As to you being a liar, it was not said by me. Are you telling the truth? I don't know that any more than I could know if you are lying, which I won't believe either way because it's none of my business. I'm just posting to conversate, not drag anybody around or make excuses for the faulted party.
I don't know you, barely know Jim, have no clue what actually happened between the two of you. All I know is that you posted a complaint on a public forum that I frequent, and it made for interesting conversation. Many times I probe & poke into controversial threads with my own controversial conversation just to see who responds & how. I don't make accusations or point fingers, just bring up hypothetical scenarios to see how people respond & who's responding. I learn a lot about people this way. I'm in this business & it's dang helpful for me to know who's who & how they approach things, as well as know about my competitors. Funny thing is there's always people who do not understand what i'm saying or think i'm stating my personal beliefs & practices as matter of fact, when all i'm doing is trying to open a new perspective as to see things in as many angles as I can. A few get way too caught up in the drama & seem to get emotionally involved with their opinions & finger pointing. As for me, i'm just here to learn, probe, provoke thought, and generally conversate. If we were all sitting at a table having a beer & talking about this in person, there would be no confusion about where everybody stands. But with written words on an internet forum, there's no facial expressions or tone of voice & that leaves a huge vacancy that gets filled with confusion & false impressions.